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fitting in

     My abie and I don’t seem to fit with most people I know into abdl. The reason I say that is most people I talk to have known they were into this for a long time. I think our experience was more like” yes that movie looks good but I am not sure it is for me” and then years later going” wow, I can’t believe I waited so long to watch that it’s amazing”.  

    I don’t think it matters how long one has liked something. I think it matters more that you do and have something in common to talk about. I didn’t even read very much about it online until becoming a phone mommy. We pretty much did what we liked and talked to very few people about it.   

      I try to have the attitude of I should be able to tell anyone I want and if they don’t care for it then be gone with them. However I can’t bring myself to feel that way 100%. I have friends that talk about their sex positions, or adult movies. I could easily pitch in with “oh I like when my hubby is bent over my lap getting spanking in panties” but that would stop the conversation I imagine. Why is it ok for ‘regular’ people to talk openly about what they like and the deviants should feel ashamed or made to smile and nod?

    Sometimes I wonder what I am afraid of… 

Scarlet

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